One Tender Moment

Tuesday, February 5 (continued)

While Jean’s in with the doctor, Bob tells me that together they have planned well and prepared for the future. In this regard, they’ve been greatly helped by some wonderful caregivers at a local hospice. As he shares the unique and comprehensive services these are already providing, I reflect on the very difficult task that has fallen to such individuals. Indeed, it takes people of great strength and determination to both find and deliver hope to others like Bob and Jean, despite the coming sorrow.

In light of such comprehensive preparations, I ask Bob if he thinks Jean might be interested, similarly, in talking about spiritual things. He thinks perhaps not, but invites me to ask her anyway. I wonder, When might God provide a moment?

Late in the evening and just before bed, Bob is on the phone with one of his mates. So I wade in to ask if she might want to discuss anything spiritually before I left. Indeed she does, and we exchange some thoughts. As we talk, she is clearly engaged, listening attentively and genuinely appreciative of my inquiry. Jean would later thank me twice.

In the end, we share a truly tender experience as brother and sister, and I ask if I can pray for her. I move close and take her by the hand, affirming the husband who loves her and a God who does, too.

Just as I finish my prayer, Bob comes out from their office and like that, the moment has come and gone ... but it has been one, nonetheless, divine.